Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Indirect Effects of Mass-Betaization on Society

Instead of another elaborate long post lamenting about what has already repeatedly been said before ( and much more eloquently so), here are just some quick (recent) links to illustrate the point.


Men giving up I: Omega male escapism
There is an increasing trend among young men to skip chasing skirts for extended hours on the web. This has been most thoroughly documented among young Asian men, where adaptation to masturbation has caused an endemic of "vaginal ejaculation disorder" (that is, even if these men get sex they can't enjoy it). So, no surprise, then that a size able number of Japanese men has petitioned their government to pass a  law legalizing marriage to manga comic characters. And now one of them couldn't even wait for that to happen, he just does it.
This is a (considerable) step forward from prolonged adolescence, porn-addiction and mere social isolation. The otaku/gamer culture has found its own ways to deal with sexuality involving an abnormal ratio of trans-gender fantasies and extreme forms social anxiety.
During on of my trips to Tokyo, I have visited one of the infamous internet cafes in Akhibara that have literally become home to some of these guys. Each floor sports several lockable booths that entail nothing but a comfy chair and a internet-linked computer (as well as as some handkerchiefs). There is a shower and a vending machine and a 24/7 concierge that sells anything from tooth paste to ties. People actually live there. Close by are "maid cafes", where guys can engage in harmless flirting with girls pretending to be sailor moon. A popular offer of theirs is to let a guy rest his head on their thighs for a while (a "knee cushion"). You can also "hire" women for a day to go shopping with you. All of them are dressed manga-style and none of them allows as much as a kiss.

Men giving up II: No sex means no need to make money.
Herbs are on the rise as a direct consequence. Guys who are happy with living in a fantasy world just need the bare minimum of existence. A men without any hope for getting laid will find it difficult to convince himself that he should work his ass off for that big house and the sports car. Often times the burden of paying for food, shelter and internet access falls on parents (who naturally rebel against their unnatural burden of providing for a man in his prime). Unthinkable just a few decades ago, you can now find men in their thirties still living at mom's.

Men giving up III: Rage-induced killing sprees.
Remember the guy who went on the killing spree in a Pennsylvania gym some months ago? He had a blog, where he made things crystal clear:
“Why do this? It seems many teenage girls have sex frequently. One 16 year old does it usually three times a day with her boyfriend. So, err, after a month of that, this little [expletive] has had more sex than ME in my LIFE, and I am 48.”
He is not alone: Seung-Hui Cho, who killed 32 people in a rampage at Virgina Tech in 2007 once claimed to have seen “promiscuity” when he looked into the eyes of a woman on campus.

Yes, these are extreme examples (especially those intermingled with a different culture), but my point is that there is a general trend upwards. And this will continue as long as the causing factors keep going upwards, too. 

If I am right, this is just a hint of things to come.

13 comments:

  1. Additionally, we'll probably see a shift in attitude towards women from men who aren't getting any (the majority of the male population). Chivalry will disappear entirely. Betas will let doors slam in women's faces and disrespect them in a bunch of other tiny but noticeable ways. Uninvested men have no reason to give a damn about the female populace.

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  2. Regarding betas / herbs forgoing the big house, sports car route consider video games. I sometimes joke to friends when I see a ferrari "Oh, I got one of them in my garage", meaning on Forza Motorsport. Oftimes a colleague asks me what I did yesterday and I'm like "Oh, first I saved the world from an alien invasion, then I infiltrated a lair of jet-pack wearing occult nazi zombies, before winning a fight tournament in Hong Kong".

    Below the jest is the point that games are good enough that they can simulate experiences that used to take decades of dedication to get in the real world. It costs next to nothing now.

    Another reason to downshift away from the corporate grind.

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  3. Vaginal ejaculation disorder is also called retarded, inhibited, or delayed ejaculation. Little information about it is available, but it is not restricted to Japan, and numerous anecdotal reports of it exist, particularly on the game and prostitution fora, where involuntarily celibate men are common.

    The typical sufferer appears to be a man with little or no sexual experience who has spent years or decades masturbating almost exclusively. These men often report that the sensation they feel from vaginal intercourse is very slight and not nearly as intense as masturbation. The hand is capable of griping with far more force and friction than a vagina, so it’s unsurprising that their mind and bodies have become desensitized.

    http://www.psychforums.com/erectile-dysfunction/topic39645.html

    http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=2120079

    http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13172&boardID=20&page=4

    http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=12221&boardID=20&page=6

    http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=12226&boardID=20&page=6

    http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=11315&boardID=20&page=9

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  4. This stuff is from so far out in left field it's crazy. How long before this starts here, five maybe ten years?

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  5. I wonder if more betas forgoing chivlary and acting like arseholes toward women will have the unexpected effect of making them more attractive to women?

    - Breeze

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  6. Don't diss guys just cuz they don't wanna sign away their natural lives to a company for a salary. Of course no man should live with Mommy, but plenty of men, and plenty of them very alpha, are deciding on a life NOT based on indentured servitude.

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  7. @Breeze - interesting thought.

    @Glowing Face Man - I agree with you. In fact, I believe that most alpha males will not go down the route of "job for money", but look for more rewarding ways to make a living. Often times these "nonconventional" men turn out to be the true movers'n'shakers and help us all progress.

    But, from the society's perspective, there is also great value in the indentured servitude of beta males striving for corporate power and money. These men do not get up every morning because they found a calling in life, something they are passionate about and determined to put their personal stamp on. It is the great big lie that a sports car and a pool will grant you high quality pussy that makes these guys work so hard.

    But - while a man with a steady income and an acceptable career was at least able score a wife in earlier days, they often stay celibate today. The whole PUA rip off industry was based on that. I personally coached guys who made six figure incomes in their early twenties thanks to gunning through college, but never (I repeat: never) had had any girl friend. Stripping this part of the population of their only motivation (getting sex in exchange for being "husband material") is responsible for the huge number of thirty-somethings that do nothing but smoke pot on momma's couch each day.

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  8. almost 40 virgin indy ManDecember 13, 2009 at 4:10 AM

    Yepp, clearly type 2 over here, living alone for over a decade now. Narrowly avoided suiciding due to feelings of uselessness, but looking up now. After FINALLY "groking" I never had to put up with direct female irrationality, AND the pure slavery that the state tries to lock us into.

    Very much doubt I would be able to get off in a vag too. So what.
    The sluts all have their emo-fun with their PUA boy-whores, and I don´t have to stick my appendages in these disease infested holes.

    Only upsides all around, once you get over the societal(marry/relationship) and evolutionary(procreation) brainwashing & programming.

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